Sunday, April 27, 2008

Prayer of St. Francis


"Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.

Where there is hatred, let me sow love;

Where there is injury, pardon;

Where there is doubt, faith;

Where there is despair, hope;

Where there is darkness, light;

Where there is sadness, joy;

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;

to be understood as to understand;

to be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life."


St. Francis was born at Assisi in 1182. After a care free youth, he turned his back on inherited wealth and committed himself to God. Like many early saints, he lived a very simple life of poverty, and in so doing, gained a reputation of being the friend of animals.



Saturday, April 26, 2008

Favorite quote for today...

"When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. Concentrate on this sentence...The will of God will never take you where the grace of God will not protect you."

2 year old sings, "The Lord's Prayer" ~ Too cute!

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Ice, Ice Baby...

I am obsessed with SONIC ice. It's hard to come by in the OC but plentiful elsewhere. I am in the Phoenix, AZ area this week and go to Sonic twice a day to get 44 oz. of iced tea... for the ice.

When I got to my hotel tonight (in lieu of proofreading my Thesis) I googled, "home Sonic pellet ice machine." I've got to buy one...
BUT... not for $4,300.00. I called to make sure it wasn't a typo. Nope. Four thousand three hundred dollars.
Guess I'll have to settle for crushed ice... :0(


Wednesday, April 23, 2008

The Last Lecture



Check out Dr. Pauch's Webpage at:


and watch his lecture...


Dr. Randy Pauch is a Computer Science professor at the Carnegie Mellon University. Everything about this 46 year professor, father of 3 kids look absolutely fine, except that he has pancreatic cancer and he is going to live, just for a few more months.


Wall street journal called it the “THE LECTURE OF A LIFETIME”. The talk filled with humor and enthusiasm lets you doubt, if this man is really going to die in a few days. In the lecture he talks about his life journey, from his love for stuffed animals, to his passion to work for Disney.
He tells why teaching is the best profession, for him it was a way to “enable the childhood dreams of others” – his students.

Some of his quotes:
“But remember, the brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want it badly enough. They’re there to stop the other people.”


“And I think that that’s one of the best things you can give somebody – the chance to show them what it feels like to make other people get excited and happy. I mean that’s a tremendous gift.”


“When you’ve had something for ten years that you hold so precious, it’s the toughest thing in the world to hand it over. And the only advice I can give you is, find somebody better than you to hand it to.”


“The best way to teach somebody something is to have them think they’re learning something else.”


“I, like Moses, get to see the promised land, but I won’t get to set foot in it.”


“I mean I don’t know how to not have fun. I’m dying and I’m having fun. And I’m going to keep having fun every day I have left. Because there’s no other way to play it.”


“How do you get people to help you? You can’t get there alone. People have to help you and I do believe in karma. I believe in paybacks. You get people to help you by telling the truth. Being earnest. I’ll take an earnest person over a hip person every day, because hip is short term. Earnest is long term. Apologize when you screw up and focus on other people, not on yourself.”


“Remember brick walls let us show our dedication. They are there to separate us from the people who don’t really want to achieve their childhood dreams. Don’t bail. The best of the gold’s at the bottom of barrels of crap.” – as my boss say ‘persistence man persistence, that makes all the difference.’


“When people give you feedback, cherish it and use it. Show gratitude. When I got tenure I took all of my research team down to Disneyworld for a week. And one of the other professors at Virginia said, how can you do that? I said these people just busted their ass and got me the best job in the world for life. How could I not do that?”


“Be good at something, it makes you valuable.”


“Find the best in everybody. One of the things that Jon Snoddy as I said told me, is that you might have to wait a long time, sometimes years, but people will show you their good side. Just keep waiting no matter how long it takes. No one is all evil. Everybody has a good side, just keep waiting, it will come out.”


“It’s not about how to achieve your dreams. It’s about how to lead your life. If you lead your life the right way, the karma will take care of itself. The dreams will come to you."

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Pier 39 and Fisherman's Wharf

We took the cable car from Union Square over to Fisherman's Wharf and Pier 39.
Ziad Sami

Melie and Ziad ~ we loved the public transit in San Fran. We took the BART, busses, taxis, the trolley AND did a lot of walking.

Sometimes I think he's a monkey...


The ROCK ~ Alcatraz. It was a pretty clear day and we could see a lot of the Bay. The Coast Guard was speeding by in speed boats, there were boaters and we even saw a crazy man swimming (without a wetsuit) while training for a tri-athalon.

Can't go to San Fran and NOT have clam chowder in a Bread bowl. It was a perfect way to warm us up. It was chilly out there!

We watched the sea lions for the longest time. They were so funny! I love how they just pile up on top of each other and sun all day long.


Ghiradelli Chocolate ~ San Francisco

Ghiradelli Square at night

Such a beautiful (but cold!) day

I didn't eat this ALL by myself...
And Ziad needed his own extra servings of hot fudge

Could've licked the glass...

Chocolate FAQ

Sunday, April 13, 2008

The future Mrs. Horton (aka Horton marries a Hugh(ie)

My cousin Megan is getting married this June to her long time sweetie, Dave. They will be tying the knot in Florence, Italy. Congrats Megs and Dave!


Hughie girls


My sweetnesses ~ Carly (6) and Lauren (4) at the shower


The hostesses gave a wonderful shower. Our take home gifts were these adorable lemon infused Italian olive oil.





Tuesday, March 18, 2008

You can cook....

Yes, your eyes are fine... I cooked dinner! From scratch. (Well... MY definition of scratch...) Lasagna with Turkey meatballs. Ziad bought me this book, How to Cook Everything. It's just my speed ~ even shows you how to boil water!
There. I did it. Cooked a meal. Now I don't have to do it for at least another year!




Wednesday, March 12, 2008

On being happy...

God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but he did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

Disappointments are like road bumps, they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don't stay on the bump to long. Move on!

When you feel down because you didn't get what you want, just sit tight and be happy, because God is thinking of something better to give you.

When something happens to you, good or bad, consider what it means. There's a purpose to life's events to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

You can't make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth. The measure of love is when you love without measures.

In life there are very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and loves you in return. So once you have it don't ever let go, the chance might never come your way again. It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride.

We spend so much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give. When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes, you accept the faults and you over look excuses.

Never abandon an old friend. You will never find one who can take his or her place. Friendship is like wine. It gets better as it grows older.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart of hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

January and February 2008


January and February 2008

Ziad and I spent the day in Carlsbad at the beach.

Happy Birthday, Ziad! Dinner at Cedars Creek ~ Laguna Niguel


Golfing At De Anza in Borrego Springs, CA. Well... Ziad and my dad played ~ My mom and I may have walked a hole or two!

My dear friend Olivia and I went on a Western Caribbean Cruise on Royal Caribbean. We sailed out of Port Caneveral, Florida and spent 8 days of being dined, entertained and enjoying every minute of a girls vacation! We visited Labadee Haiti, Ochos Rios Jamaica, Georgetown Grand Cayman, and Cozumel Mexico! Can't wait to get back...
Dunns River Falls ~ Jamica. We climbed to the top of the falls and played in the waterfalls.


Beautiful Jamaica

Turtles in Grand Cayman

Snorkeling in the crystal blue pursuasion!

No worries, no demands...

Hola! Cozumel, Mexico. The highlight of the trip was getting to swim with dolphins. I got to pet, kiss and even ride a dolphin!

My baby sister, Dana married Nick Everett in Sisters, Oregon on February 23rd. Everything was just perfect! A beautiful couple, my entire family together and a memorable and special weekend.

Nick and the bridesmaids....
(L to R) Crystal, Emily, Katie, Andrea, JulieAnna, Me, Nick, Kim and Lucy

Mel and Dee

The happy couple in front of the Three Sisters ~ Faith, Hope and Charity

Thursday, January 24, 2008

The Copycats

The Copycats ~ A Rockabilly Band. Sammer (Ziad's Brother) on lead guitar, Thomas on drums, Eric on vocals and Ziad on Bass.
Concentrating...


and having fun!


Heidi and Melinda (Lucy and Ethel).


Tuesday, January 8, 2008

A Sunday morning at Laguna Beach


Sunny and 75 in January


Beach blanket and sun...


Arabic 101 lessons by Z at The Cottage


The Cottage ~ this is our favorite weekend breakfast spot. It is situated in an old house and has the best home style cuisine.

Happy girl